An Unforeseen Family Tragedy (2024)

"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."Proverbs 27:17

Good morning, my family, friends, and foreign invaders; how the hell are you this most amazing Friday morning? We got a little rain last night, and I think the weather will turn around; I’ve got meetings most of the day, but I think if I check a few boxes, I can wrap up by 4:00 and enjoy a Friday evening with my wife in our little neighborhood.

We had a family tragedy, and we will need your support. Years ago, we bought a countertop ice machine and aptly named her Icey; for years, Icey provided ice to ourselves and our Air B and B guests, fresh ice whenever you needed it, but after thousands of ice cubes were made, she no longer could function. We discovered this upon our return home. We had a little service, bought a plot on applicancedeath.com, and once we get her headstone, we will ship her off for her final resting spot. Her replacement should arrive today; we will name her, love her, and look forward to the frozen treats this new family member will provide. If you don’t have a countertop ice maker, rethink your decision.

In a continuing effort to show DEI is a sham, a Former DEI executive for Facebook and Nike got 5 years in prison for stealing $5M to fund her luxury lifestyle. In one instance of fraud, Barbara Furlow-Smiles claimed the funds she was stealing were needed for a 'Juneteenth' event. Soon, another “d” will be added to the three letters, there will be a slight shuffle of the letters, and we will no longer hear about this push to comply with the woke mindset of a small group of individuals.

One of my wife’s favorite things is working in our Indy backyard. It’s a small courtyard, and we have it professionally updated every spring; by the time we arrive, everything is popping, but we do have some weeds that need to be pulled; yesterday evening was her time to get outside and get dirty, she pulled the weeds, swept the deck, I called and will have our deck and pergola pressured washed in time for our gathering next Sunday, it’s nice to have paradise in your backyard.

Upon returning to each home, we make a Costco run and get our essentials; they include pounds of meat, Nicorette gum, cheese, tortillas, and everything we need to make our pup's dog food. As of today, our dog eats the following in the morning and evening. Chicken, beef, beef heart, tuna, spinach, and green beans. She might be the most spoiled dog on the planet, but our love for our little lady is second to none; Parker Van Halen is one special beast.

I cooked about 12 pounds of carnitas last night. It’s all bagged, and the juice has been added to each bag. We need it for stirfry, tacos, and other dishes, so we have it ready to roll. As I bagged it, I tasted it, and there was something about a nice pork loin seasoned to perfection. If you are not using an Instapot, see my note about a countertop ice machine. I’m only here to help you live your best life.

Many kids are protesting; the month's flavor seems to be the Middle East. The president is to give a commencement speech at an HBC on Sunday. They are worried the kids will protest, but according to the New York Times, black college kids don’t look past our country. They don’t have the same interest in foreign affairs as the whites, and thus, they don’t expect any shenanigans. I think they are underestimating kids' passion, no matter their color. Good luck, Joe. Show them what you got, kids!

In a big win for religious freedom, A Riverside County school district has agreed to pay $360,000 to settle a lawsuit from a former teacher who was fired last year after refusing to adhere to policies regarding transgender or gender-nonconforming students, citing her Christian beliefs. Jessica Tapia, who taught physical education at Jurupa Valley High School, claimed in her wrongful termination lawsuit that her free speech and religious rights had been violated. She had refused — hypothetically, in statements to district personnel — to use students' preferred pronouns, to allow them to use the locker room matching their gender identity, or to "withhold information" from parents about their child's gender identity, according to the federal lawsuit. You can find this story in the L.A. Times. Is the pendulum swinging back a little? We will see, but this is good news for people who stick by their faith and values.

We have a busy weekend. I shared that my wife and I will enjoy each other tonight, just the two of us; we have a lot of connections we would like to make when home, so our time is essential to protect. Tomorrow night, one of our teammates, Aaron, and his band, The Smoking Horses, are doing a show. We are going to go see them play. I’ve watched them on YouTube; they are pretty darn good. Sunday, we have tickets to see the Indianapolis Indians. So far, we have one grandkid joining, and we are waiting for confirmation on two more. Minor league baseball is a great, fun, low-cost activity; if you want something fun to do, catch a game and enjoy the family time.

I have my monthly men's meeting today. It’s a 3 hour deep dive into the lives of fourteen men and one woman. We all come to the meeting with an open heart and open mind, and we support each other through the highs and lows of life; it’s a place where men can show emotion; the bonds formed in the group are like no other, my brothers would take a bullet for me and I for them. Connecting with other humans past a surface level and getting down into the emotional baggage is something most never experience. Still, I was blessed to be invited to join years ago, and it’s made me the man I am today. Never underestimate the human connection and love of others. Enjoy your Friday; I’ll be back tomorrow, God willing!

"As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another."Proverbs 27:17

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An Unforeseen Family Tragedy (2024)

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How to say death in the family professionally? ›

Sample Email for Death in Family

Dear [Manager's Name], I am writing this email to inform you that my [Relationship] has passed away, and I need to be with my family to attend to matters and process the loss.

What is another word for death in the family? ›

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Is a death in the family considered a family emergency? ›

In the case of a true family emergency, you would need to contact your the American Red Cross to make contact with your trainee. Emergencies include: – Death in the immediate family. – Serious illness in the immediate family.

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What do you say when someone dies?
  1. "I'm sorry for your loss. I'm here for you."
  2. "My condolences on your loved one's passing. May their memory bring you comfort.“
  3. “I extend my deepest sympathy to you. ...
  4. "Thinking of you, sending love and support.“
  5. "We're saddened by the news. ...
  6. "Heartfelt condolences. ...
  7. "You're not alone.
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What does sudden demise mean in family? ›

The demise of something or someone is their end or death. [...] [formal] See full entry for 'demise' Collins COBUILD Advanced Learner's Dictionary.

How do you say death in the family without saying death? ›

She entered eternal rest, is at rest, went away, is gone, has gone to a better place. They passed on, passed away. A euphemism is a mild or indirect word or phrase that's a softer substitute for a blunt or direct expression. Death can be difficult or uncomfortable to talk about.

What is an euphemism for family death? ›

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England1Northern Ireland2
1.Passing/passed away/over/onPassing/passed away/over/on
2.Kick the bucketKick the bucket
3.Popped their clogsLeft us/ no longer with us/gone
4.Left us/no longer with us/goneGone to heaven/ in heaven
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How do you use family bereavement in a sentence? ›

Examples from the Collins Corpus

Have you recently had a life crisis, a family bereavement, moved house or lost your job? The Killing got so close to us, losing it is like a family bereavement. His death is like a family bereavement. Staff in his office said he was dealing with'a family bereavement '.

What is a fancy way of saying death? ›

Words for death used in formal, official contexts include fatality and casualty. In the context of crime, different types of death (and their causes) are given specific classifications, such as homicide and murder.

Is a family member dying traumatic? ›

If your loved one's death was sudden, violent, or otherwise extremely stressful or disturbing, complicated grief can manifest as psychological trauma or PTSD. Being traumatized from the loss of a loved one can leave you feeling helpless and struggling with upsetting emotions, memories, and anxiety that won't go away.

When a family member dies unexpectedly? ›

Go to the hospital or morgue

This could be a hospital or morgue. If you are next of kin, you will likely have to identify the body, so prepare yourself for that grim responsibility. From there, the pronouncement of death is taken care of by the hospital staff or the coroner, so you don't have to take further action.

How to write a professional email about a death in the family? ›

In the following paragraphs, I'll offer some general rules for writing a professional condolence message.
  1. Rule #1: Be concise and clear. ...
  2. Rule #2: If you know something heartening from the deceased's life, mention it. ...
  3. Rule #3: Refrain from mentioning the cause of death. ...
  4. Condolence message for a coworker you are close with.
Nov 22, 2022

How do you professionally say there was a death in the family? ›

Tell or email your boss that a family member passed away.

For instance, you can say something like: “I just wanted to reach out and let you know that my uncle recently passed away, and I'll need 3-5 days off to be with my family and attend the funeral.”

What not to say when a family member dies? ›

Saying things like “She is in a better place” or “He's better off” can be offensive. For a person grieving, the better place for a loved one is here, not on the Other Side. Telling someone a loved one is better off dead will most likely be taken as a cold and callous comment.

How do you say we had a death in the family? ›

It's best to talk slowly and gently using plain, simple language. You may want to warn them that you have bad (or sad) news to try to make it less of a shock. It is usually clearer to say that someone has died than to say things such as 'gone to sleep', 'gone away' or that you have 'lost' the person.

How do you say someone died in a professional way? ›

Some common synonyms of deceased are dead, defunct, departed, and late. While all these words mean "devoid of life," deceased, departed, and late apply to persons who have died recently. deceased is the preferred term in legal use. Where would dead be a reasonable alternative to deceased?

How to tell work about a death in the family? ›

You need to tell your line manager or HR team about a death if you need to take time off work. You may find it easier to send an email or text rather than speak on the phone or see them in person. Most employers will be supportive, and it can be useful for them to know how you're getting on.

What do you say when someone dies professionally? ›

I am deeply sorry to hear about the passing of your loved one. My deepest sympathy goes out to you at this difficult time. May happy memories of your [family member] bring you comfort at this sad time. I am saddened to hear of the loss of your [family member].

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